Its's quite easy to read and hear people say " forgive but never forget" It's very tough though. What is forgiving!? An ability to forget what happened through the means of understanding what the guilty has been through!? If we keep thinking about some one else, who will think of us and what we have been through? That leaves us with two options: Don't care for what the others did or forgive them out of love My Thoughts on them:
Not Caring for the others : Is it possible to ignore people when you see them every day and when the memories are linked to them in some or the other manner? To be able to do that, you will need to be made of rock where you live only for some purpose such as money, job and live a hypocritical life.Thats mediocre?
Being able to forgive some one out of love: What's love? Its a universal feeling of being able to understand and respect some one for what they are( Its not love if u r able to give time to know the other person< its not love) . So when you are not able to love some one from the heart, you are only compromising with your own values and saying that you were forgiving him/her. That's hypocricy/ just a stunt to take care of practical things. What ever the reason may be, it's just not true. So why live false? Live with pride and don't lie. I am not encouraging grudges against each other
Yes, experience taught me. Respect once lost is lost.
Not Caring for the others : Is it possible to ignore people when you see them every day and when the memories are linked to them in some or the other manner? To be able to do that, you will need to be made of rock where you live only for some purpose such as money, job and live a hypocritical life.Thats mediocre?
Being able to forgive some one out of love: What's love? Its a universal feeling of being able to understand and respect some one for what they are( Its not love if u r able to give time to know the other person< its not love) . So when you are not able to love some one from the heart, you are only compromising with your own values and saying that you were forgiving him/her. That's hypocricy/ just a stunt to take care of practical things. What ever the reason may be, it's just not true. So why live false? Live with pride and don't lie. I am not encouraging grudges against each other
Yes, experience taught me. Respect once lost is lost.
No comments:
Post a Comment