You get what you want

I have been away from writing for some time which ate into my peace of mind. I met a lot of people on in the course of my life so far.What's interesting is the way things turned out. Some how, some thing tells me that we get what we want, may be late. When the desire in the soul is very deep and true and good. It comes true. There will still be things you need to deal with. You may not be comfy with a few things/people. You may not be able to create room for every one you meet. This creates whirl in mind which causes friction and eats away our peace of mind. To be able to love and accommodate others, you need to first be able to love yourself in a spiritual context. You also have to realize that respect is beyond love. It takes guts to respect some one for what they are . Because, in reality the relationships do not go smooth because they are bound by expectations which in the true world are not met most of the times except for when they are quantified. Now that the relationships are beyond numbers, they can only be measured through the happiness and joy we experience.