Illusion

It is very hard to come to conclusion in life about anything... What you think exists, doesn't exist and some times what you can hardly even imagine appears in front of your eyes. Notice this: for anything which would happen in our life, we imagine or expect or hope or anticipate or wish that things would happen and we live in that illusion of happiness or sadness. If its happy news, we love ourselves, people around us, cherish the moments we spent and if we dont like the news we hate ourselves, we tend to make excuses for the loss, blame our parents or ourselves and every thing else under the sky. We get into a security blanket, shut our eyes ears and mind and live in the same world for years..some times until the end of life. What ever the news is, if you notice carefully, its only we who react cause we want some thing to happen in life and any difference from what we want we react . In both the cases, its an illusion not reality. To come out of the illusion is the challenge...whats the way out of it?? I don't know.. I guess that's the reason we have so many things happening in the world