Another major learning!! I have been having a few conversations with my friends..which opened the doors to more wisdom.
Observations: We tend to talk about people on their back..( Obviously not good things) , we tend to get defensive when we know that some one is back biting us..
Inferences: We back bite when we get in secured on what we have, when we don't enjoy the success of others the way we do our own success, we don't know what to do, when we find some one vulnerable. We only say we respect but donno how to spell it
We get defensive because we are afraid every one knows our secrets. Some where in the bottom of the heart we know we can do better but we are lazy and always make excuses. We like to be respected though we dont respect others. We are not happy with what we have We want more
Prescription : All the ones who get defensive.wake up know your self better
The ones who talk behind the back.You need help ask for it!Nothng wrong in saying that you need help!
PS : If you are too pricy to accept..May your soul rest in peace
Its the fact of life, the best way to over come is to tell yourself..."people who hate you are just the confused admirers...because they can't figure out the reason why everyone Loves You..."
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