Worry

Off late based on my interactions, I have noticed that.there are so many things which keep happening in our daily life . Some within our control some out of our control. Irrespective of that, we are being controlled by them. We want to wake up in comfort, we want to get dressed well, we want to look good, we want to be surrounded by people, etc etc. Its so strange even if one of the elements miss we go into a kind of depression. We tend to shout at the ones who gave us the pain. We tend to remain to our selves, We avoid those we don't like. What we don't notice is that we are all in the illusion of control. Some one wouldn't change because you abused him. Some one wouldn't talk good about you because you don't like to be back bitten. Some one wouldn't respect you because you want it. These all have to happen involuntarily and naturally, just the way you breathe. Yet, if that would have been so easy life would have been so different. At least, we can avoid unnecessary thoughts by realizing the fact that true happiness doesn't lie in the untrue expectations from others when we ourselves are not. But then the question is Do we know what we are? The other questions which come along are: Can we accept our mistakes than blame others? Can we apologize when necessary? Do we respect others? Many more questions which always remain unanswered because we are scared of ourselves.